Vulva owners are incredibly creative when it comes to masturbation – using a number of tools and techniques, including their use of hands, dildos and vibrators. But what if we don’t have access to such items or we just can’t get all the way there with them? Some of us lucky ladies have found streams of water washing over our vulvas to be one of the most amazing ways to masturbate. Welcome to the wonderful world of water masturbation!
Let’s take a look at the benefits of using water to masturbate and the best ways to get you “there”!
Tips for Water Masturbation:
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Choose where you want to do it – I recommend the bathtub! The benefits are you get to lay down and be comfortable, the water can rush over you, the duller sensation of the faucet has a longer build up. This equates to more intense orgasms! Lay back, relax and let it “come” to you.
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Another option is the shower…always a fun place. Handheld showerheads are wonderful for directing a sharp stream of water right where you want it. The only problem is it can be a little bit too sharp for people’s liking. Enjoy it if it’s your thing.
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Last but not least, jacuzzi jets. Nice power, but not too sharp. Problems? I warn you to be careful with water you are spraying/shooting on you. It’s usually recycled water.
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Find your comfort zone whether it’s in the tub, shower or jets. Do you like to lay down? Stand up? When you are comfortable you can hold onto your intense orgasms and build up. For example, you may feel the most comfortable laying flat, underneath the faucet vs. propped up on your elbows. It can be difficult to hold a position. This is one of the benefits to The WaterSlyde because it allows the water to come to you.
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Setting the mood. Have your ambiance how you like it. This is your time. This is why I created the ThreePlay Massage Candle because it sets such a nice mood and adds the aroma of the aphrodisiac, smolder scent. Then to be able to pour the oil on you in the tub allows for extra, slippery fun.
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Temperature. This should be higher up on the list because you don’t want to scorch yourself or be too cold, but enjoy in temperature play. Sometimes when the rumble is going over you and you turn it up a little bit – it wakes you up.
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Pressure. Turn the water down and have it tease you. Then turn it up and increase the power. Lay back and let the water work its magic.
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To be solo or not. It’s wonderful to masturbate by yourself, but if you want to invite someone in the tub with you or watch you, it can add an extra erotic experience. Have people jump behind you or sit on the edge with free hands to explore.
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Add toys. There are a plethora of waterproof toys and one of our favorites is The WaterSlyde. It’s the only toy out there that actually uses water for masturbation. The best.
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Take your time. This is not something to rush though. There is plenty of time to rush in life, why are rushing pleasure? One of the beauties of water masturbation is it’s your own place to be free. A lot of people say when they are in the bathroom and they shut the door, the whole world disappears. On average it takes a vulva owner 20 minutes to be fully aroused. Enjoy it!