When you hear the question: “what’s the best sex you’ve ever had?” What comes to mind?
For some, it’s a particularly hot experience that’s become the subject of repeated fantasies ever since. Others may think of a particular partner who was especially skilled. No matter what the answer, this always an apt subject for storytelling.
What We Need To Learn
We rounded up some stories from writers around the world, all of them describing their best memories of sex.
Above all, communication is key. One common thread that most of these experiences share is that the people involved knew exactly what their partner wanted and how to deliver it.
Sex with an ex can be a fun experience.
“Hotel sex with an ex bf of mine. We had temporarily broken up but were still getting action from each other. Non-stop sexting all day until I showed up at the hotel that night. He was sitting in a chair in a towel, had a bottle of champagne and a bowl of twizzlers bites (my favorite) on the table. He told me to start undressing, slowly. Hours and hours of f***ing ensued. Better than any experience I had when we were dating.” One reader recalls.
Good sex can come from unexpected places.
“we were going to bed and I wasn’t expecting sex, but we started and I was underneath, he was slow but exact, pressing me harder. I was just lost in the moment and experiencing everything rather than trying to cum asap. I was worried so I said “I don’t want you to think that I’m not into it because I’m stiller than usual, I’m just surrendering”. He smiled and said he knew all of that, it was perfect.” Wrote another reader.
Sometimes an otherwise incompatible partner can be great in the bedroom.
“I had a FWB for a little while last year who I really didn’t care for too much as a person. He was 32, but essentially lived like a college boy and could barely take care of himself. Without getting too into unnecessary detail, the guy drove me absolutely BANANAS.But he was drop dead gorgeous and the man he was in bed was a completely different person. He might not have been very good at basic adulting, but he was great at sex and he knew it.. So after a night of drinking, I’d keep calling. The fact I didn’t feel like I need to impress him enabled me to lose myself, be selfish, and get what I want. So interestingly enough, some of the best sex of my life ended up being with my least favorite match.” Says a reader.
Getting adventurous can usually pay off.
“My boyfriend and I of 3 years got pretty drunk at a Halloween party (both still being in college). We went back to my place, locked the door, and had sex all over the house; kitchen, living room, dining room, bedroom, everywhere. With the possible risk of one of my roommates coming home as well. Definitely one to remember.” Wrote one reader.
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