When you’re ready to explore consensual non-monogamy, there are a variety of communities, online and offline, to help you take the journey.
The swinger’s website SwingersHelp.com is a resource for anyone interested in experiencing ethical non-monogamy. They have tips, podcasts, and other resources, plus they have information about how to seek out encounters when you travel.
One of the site’s most helpful function is the “Most Popular Swinging Sites” list, which they recently updated.
How The Rankings Work
Almost every major metro area across the United States is represented in the Swingers Help rankings. A big factor used to determine the rankings was simply how many swingers are actively using the site in a given metro. After all, what good are a bunch of cool features if you won’t actually be able to meet anyone? Here’s a bit more about the method:
Our testers have gone across America to find the most popular lifestyle site for each city. We did our best to take into consideration free vs paid accounts, active vs dormant, couples vs singles, and other factors to be as fair as possible. If two sites had similar popularity, they are joint winners.
Here’s What Changed
SwingersHelp also posted the updated rankings on reddit, explaining a bit further about what has changed since their last crop of rankings. Here are some of the highlights:
Some of the smaller swinger sites are fading away. We hate to see any site have trouble but some dating site consolidation might make life simpler for swingers.
• Online swinging profiles have really grown over the last few months. We found the totaled counts up all across the country.
• There are several new swinger sites but they haven’t broken into the top rankings yet. Good luck 🙂
• If you want to attract other profiles to your account there are three things you really want to do. A) upgrade to a paid account, B) add public pictures, C) become certified/verified. Many (but not all) swingers regularly filter out people that don’t hit all three check boxes. These three things make usually result in a night to day difference. The popularity of a swinger site doesn’t matter if your profile page isn’t appealing to others.
Check out the full list and find out which sites are active in your area here.